Who Do You Love Most? Why Loving Yourself is Not Selfish | KV Shan

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Who Do You Love Most? Learning to Choose Yourself without Feeling Guilty There is a question most of us answer incorrectly without even realizing it. “Who do you love the most?” We say: My mother. My father. My spouse. My children. My God. Very rarely — almost never — someone says: “Myself.” The moment a person says that aloud, people around them feel uncomfortable. “That sounds selfish.” But here is a quiet truth about life: You have lived every second of your existence with only one permanent companion — you . Everyone else came later. Everyone else stays temporarily. Everyone else leaves eventually — through distance, misunderstanding, time, or death. Yet the person you neglect the most… is the only one guaranteed to remain till your last breath. This is not philosophy. This is survival. The Misunderstood Word: Self-Love Many people confuse self-love with arrogance. They imagine a person who ignores others, refuses sacrifice, and lives only for personal comfort. T...
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